The Life Doctor

Your Horny Caveman

Your Horny Caveman

Why do some people find it so hard to practise safe sex or even remain faithful?

Good intentions can go out the window as soon as someone feels horny.  This powerful sexual urge can get people indulge in things they wouldn’t normally do.  Amazing how many after an orgasm think “What the f*ck was I doing?  Why did I risk my life like that?  I will never do that again!”  (until the next bout of horniness kicks in.)

It’s no point me telling them how stupid it was or the horror stories I get to hear as  they already know this stuff, especially in Brighton where we are bombarded with safer sex messages.  So why can’t they control themselves and use their willpower to make sure they keep to a healthier sex life?

The answer is their brain.  The Primal Brain also known as the Limbic System when sexually stimulated will lock out easily the rational part of you in order to fulfil the urge to spread your seed or eggs.  Think of this part of the brain like Caveman demanding you do as he says. This  Caveman is your emotional, survival, sexual centre.  He makes sure you get food, shelter, security, and deal with dangers to your wellbeing.  As he is your sexual centre he’s hardwired to make sure that you spread your seed and eggs whenever possible.

Here is something some of you may find a little offensive…well at first anyway.

If you find you cannot stop indulging in unsafe sex, affairs, over eating, smoking, drinking, over reacting and feel you lack will power then it may be a sign of lower intelligence due to under developed frontal lobes.  Hence why it’s common for people to ask why they acted so stupid!

You should and could be better than this with a little help. The good news is that you can exercise the frontal lobes to interact with your Caveman,  increase your intelligence and make better decisions and those exercises will be in my next article.

For now if you are someone who is currently placing themselves at risk make sure you masturbate before going into any situation where you would normally give in.  It is amazing how when you cum how much easier it is to say yes to something healthier instead.

If you would like help to sort out your mind and it’s interesting but annoying habits then please contact me for a chat.  Skype chat or face to face sessions available.

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